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On this page, important questions and answers about the topic of moneyslavery are answered.
What is a "Moneydom" actually?
The word "Moneydom" includes the words Money and Dom. Dom does not refer to architecture in this case, but is an abbreviation for Domina. However, a Moneydom is not necessarily a Domina in the classic sense. In principle, the Moneydom resembles the Domina in some elementary characteristics: she inflicts pain, but not physically (or not directly), she holds, educates, and punishes slaves, ideally, she also likes to humiliate and/or parade slaves - but most Moneydoms do not have a studio or a dungeon as one would know from a classic Domina. A Moneydom dominates the slave over his money that she takes from him. This relatively young form of SM has now become widespread as it is easy to practice. Traditionally, the slave presents gifts to the mistress. These can take different forms: via Paypal, Amazon, or in the form of transfers. The mistress gives the slave part of her attention, but only as long as he pays and fulfills his obligations. Money means freedom in our world. If you have money, you can buy something for yourself - as we all know, there are claims that you can buy almost anything with money, and I would even agree with that. And without money? Without money, you lose this possibility. You can't go out with friends, you can't go to the cinema, you can't afford any special luxury items because you lack the money. This renunciation is the kick that the Moneydom experiences when it is provided by a slave for her. A Moneydom takes away the slave's freedom and thus inflicts the "pain" known from SM - but not physically, but psychologically and much more deeply than a whip can do.
What is a "money slave"?
The money slave is the target of the Gelddomina or Moneydom. He submits to the mistress, sweetens her life, gives her luxury goods and sacrifices for her. Occasionally, he may be rewarded at the discretion of the Moneydom. The reward can take the form of photos of the things that were bought, videos, or sometimes even worn clothing. This, as mentioned, is all at the discretion of the mistress.
Why should someone give money to another person?
For the thrill. The fact that something is given up and that one has to step back while another person benefits from it is what creates the thrill. Money slavery can quickly lead to dependence, especially if the slave is conditioned to only have an orgasm when he has paid. The humiliation he experiences then becomes an important part of his sexuality, which also determines it later on.
Is it legal?
I wouldn't know what's illegal about receiving gifts.
Is it dangerous?
It can be dangerous, yes. As long as you maintain a certain level of anonymity, choose a name for yourself as a Mistress that has as little as possible to do with your real name and is not in any private relationship with you, you shouldn't worry too much. Here the rule applies: don't trust anyone, as bad as it sounds. I would even claim that the species of money slaves would not exert violence solely due to their submissive nature, however, I would not recommend any Moneydom to meet a slave in real life, disclose important data, or reveal themselves. Even if the temptation is great. Through a bank account, you reveal your name or part of it. By registering a domain in Germany, you reveal your entire identity immediately. Such things should be well thought out!
Why do most of the slaves want to see my feet?
A typical side effect of submissive people: many of them are foot fetishists. Seeing and worshiping feet significantly contributes to the overall degradation of the slave and is therefore often considered part of the 'ritual.' According to their opinion, slaves do not deserve to worship the woman as a whole, so they settle for the bottom part: their feet. However, not all money slaves are automatically foot fetishists - many, but not all. It doesn't hurt to take a few foot pictures.
A slave wants to meet me...
So far so good - please note that you should know the slave well. Do you know his name, what he does, where he lives, etc.? Imagine you meet a slave and come across the wrong one, the one who is not submissive and obedient but possibly violent. I don't want to scare you, but there is never a guarantee, no matter what promises are made to you: be careful! Real shopping meetings should only be considered if you are not alone and/or really know the slave well (and even that is no guarantee). If it can't be avoided (for whatever reason), I recommend public places. The slave can go shopping with you on busy streets, carry your bags, and pay for the purchases.
What is a "dept contract"?
A Dept Contract is a document which fixes the financial debt or loan of a creditor (in this case, the Moneydom) towards the debtor (the slave). It is intended to force the slave to make regular payments to the mistress. There are many Dept Contracte circulating on the internet, and only 10% of them are truly watertight. This is particularly true because this "contract" is on a sexual level or part of a "role play," so it is often not recognized despite its validity. Realistically, the Dept Contract is the next big thrill for the slave. Normal payments are not enough to satisfy him; instead, he wants to be forced to continue paying even if he changes his mind.
What is "blackmailing"?
Blackmailing comes from English and means extortion. This is exactly what it is. The slave is extorted by the mistress to continue paying her money, even if he does not want to. This form of enslavement is very similar to the debt contract, but the slave who desires this enslavement expresses the desire for the mistress to always be active in order to maintain his mental image and keep the excitement going. Blackmailing is absolutely illegal and does not hold up in any court in the world. Blackmailing someone remains a crime - be aware of that.
A slave wants me to ruin him...
Living out fantasies in one's head is perfectly fine as long as both parties are in agreement. However, always remember the person behind the submissive. He may have a family, children, and a wife. Perhaps due to overwhelming excitement, he may not be able to assess what he is doing correctly, which is often the case. Therefore, please be aware of the responsibility you have over a person who wants to submit to you in this way. For one person, 10 dollar may be a lot, for another, 1000 dollar may be little.